The Third "Truth or Dare" thread

[Elric3960]

^^^I guess that makes me "average."  That's reassuring.

My most embarrasing moment in bed...hmmm.....

Part II of The Affair That Never Should Have Happened:

I had a heated argument with my mother when she made a "surprise visit" to my apartment.  I don't remember what it was about, but it struck me hard enough that I couldn't "perform" with my roommate's girlfriend.  Apparently, I wasn't "in the mood" and my body responded accordingly.  The next day, when the girl insisted that we try again("I want you!" were the words that she used), let's just say that it made up for the night before.

As for a "Dare," I'll leave that for one of our professional dare-givers.

[Ana Ng]

Ok, guys, I'm bored! Hit me with a truth!

[Elric3960]

All right, Ana.

Name three characteristics that every boy you ever dated had in common.

If you think that "dated" is too limiting, replace it with "knew socially."

[Ana Ng]

Gosh, that's a tough one. I don't think any of my boyfriends have ever been very much alike. Seriously.  I'm like the chick with anti-patterns.

Ok.. let me think:

1) They've all had really intimidating fathers, at least to me. I'm usually so great with meeting friends' families, etc, but every boyfriend I've ever had has had a father who scared the bejesus out of me.  And the guys themselves didn't get along with their fathers either.

2) Well, here's one I can say for all of my boyfriends *except* my present boyfriend: Until I started seeing the guy I'm seeing now, none of them have been physically attractive to me.  I'm very much a person who doesn't go at all by what people look like, and what attracted me to my previous boyfriends was certainly NOT their looks.  I guess I've always thought that even though they weren't at all what my concept of a "physically attractive" person, that anyone you care about will look better to you.  It just sort of happened that my current boyfriend is physically my "type", because I met him online and really liked him before I ever even laid eyes on him.

3) I've never dated a smoker!  Considering that I'm a total slave to nicotine, this is pretty weird.  It's also kinda weird since all of my *friends* are smokers, but none of my boyfriends have been.  And you know, it's funny, because each time I'd end a relationship, I'd sort of laugh to myself and say "Next time, I'm dating a smoker! That way he won't complain about it!" But it's never happened.  My current boyfriend doesn't mind the smoking though, his whole family smokes and he's completely used to it.   I know a lot of people think it's a terrible habit, but it IS the only one I have.  I don't drink or do drugs or gamble, it's my only vice.

Other than that.. well.. my boyfriends have all been very different people, with very different attitudes.. it's kinda weird.

Good question, Elric!

[Rhai]

Ana I have a tendecy to date the opposite guys.. haha..meaning i go for sweet and caring guy..then when they ended i went for the odd and vibrant guy..

Well atleast that is what I used to be like.. (UT was my odd and vibrant guy) All the guys I have actually "dated" have been older than me.. by months or years.

[Zeph]

can I awnser that same question? But of course awnser it from a male point of view talking about females Ive dated want to make sure I am playing right otherwise I will take a new truth.

[Ioleeta]

All of my ex-boyfriends seem to have either come out recently or like dressing up in womens clothing

Other than that they've all been very different...

[StolenThunder]

Ioleeta said:

All of my ex-boyfriends seem to have either come out recently or like dressing up in womens clothing

Hmm...

[Ana Ng]

Sure, Zeph, go ahead and answer. It's an interesting question.

[EvilTree]

I think I'm not qualified to answer this question

[Zeph]

In my short 40 years on this earth I have dated many kinds of women, Tall (one was a half foot taller than me and I am 6 feet tall!) short, heavier, Lighter, white , black, & asian.
Redheads, Blonde, Bunette and black haired....you get the point.. note I use the word dated, By no means did I have "realations" so to speak with all these people.
they all had 3 things in common.
1. A nice smile, Not perfect white teeth, but a smile that makes you fell all warm inside.
2. A good or better sense of humour...You need it to put up with me.
3. Intelligence.....If nothing more than correct my spelling
I got lucky when I met Qab, She is one in a million and I remind myself of that everyday.

[Peter_Pevensie]

Ioleeta said:

All of my ex-boyfriends seem to have either come out recently or like dressing up in womens clothing

Um, Ioleeta, have we met before?

[Elric3960]

^^^^ROTLF!  Welcome back, Peter!

Thank you, Ana, for opening the door to include the male spin to my question.  And thanks, Zeph, for your response.  Like you, I tended to be an "equal opportunity dater" but as far as "relationships" were concerned, I haven't gotten nearly as lucky as you have.  My three common traits have been:

1.  The ladies had very stormy relationships with both parents

2.  They didn't fit the conventional image of what fashion magazines would describe as "beautiful" but like you, Ana, I don't take stock in such things as a matter of course

3.  They were somewhat insecure about themselves and found my personal interest in them as people as well as women desirable in itself, I guess.

Amazing how far a simple act of kindness can take you when life conditions are less-than-favorable.  Unfortunately, I haven't yet mastered the "If I think that you're beautiful, why can you see it" obstacle or the "I had a reason to love you, why isn't that enough to make you feel better about yourself" problem that I've been facing for the past two decades of infrequent dating.

[Ioleeta]

Heres a question to restart it;
         Wheres the most "personal" place you have a piercing or tattoo and do you regret it now?

[UltimateTrekker]

No tats or holes for me.. ucky, no thanks.